"What you do for yourself will affect how you experience your world. In fact, it will transform how you experience the world. What you do for yourself, you are doing for others. And what you do for others, you are doing for yourself" ~ Pema Chödrön
The retreat began Friday evening when Meg (an Executive Director of an NGO - non-governmental organization focused on family planning and HIV prevention) picked up myself and another complejo resident, Marissa, to make our way to the coast (without traffic it takes about 35-40 minutes to reach our destination) at a nice beach house called Lost Paradise. http://www.lostparadiselsalvador.com/ The house was wonderful - nice rooms with bathrooms (and hot water - a Peace Corps Volunteer never takes that for granted) that we shared; an open air dining and sitting area looking down onto a pool area; and lush surroundings. Beth and Jesse provided an inviting and relaxing atmosphere with good music, wine, food, flowers...and an "altar" (with beach rocks, flowers and beach wood) for convening at different times in the weekend, including our yoga. When we arrived, we got settled, relaxed and enjoyed a delicious meal of fresh sea bass, mango salsa and roasted, creamed yucca; and Jesse facilitated a relaxation and intention setting welcoming circle. Jesse began giving her Thai massage one-on-one sessions and Beth started the group in making a collaborative leaf painting ~ imprints of real leaves onto canvas layered throughout the weekend with some free-form painting. The other participants (four other women plus one assistant/instructor) in the retreat were from Guatemala City and work at an American school there (where Jesse has worked for the past 2 years before coming to the El Salvador American school).
Later on after a healthy, light lunch we headed to the nearby Playa del Tunco and Tekuani Kal for a temazcal (aztec sauna or sweat lodge) of Nahuat-Aztec design with use of medicinal plants and ancestral ritual. I have always wanted to take part in a sweat lodge, but have not in north america. The intense heat was something to get used to and allowed me (demanded of me) to go into meditative breathing; the aromas were different in each of the three rounds (new hot rocks and water) and greatly enhanced the overall experience. I used the ujjayi (ocean breath) that we practiced with Beth earlier that day in yoga; and continued to push myself to be open to stick with the experience, which paid off in the end. Afterwards we went into this pool of cool water that looks out onto the ocean...
The next day began with a yoga session --- how wonderful to practice yoga in the open air; a tasty breakfast; and then I experienced Thai massage. Jesse is trained in both Thai and Swedish massage. Thai massage seems to be based in movement of the body (a form of bodywork typically performed on the floor with no oils) in addition to the actual massage of the body. At one point Jesse "flew" me on her feet to better work with gravity and the manipulation or stretching of my body; it was a truly amazing, beautiful, healing experience... Our time as a group ended with a closing practice, group picture and selection of the collaborative leaf painting beneficiary - not me. I left feeling connected and transformed; and honored to be part of this weekend retreat.